Taking things for granted

We are always taking things for granted like we own it. We act like it’s our property and don’t appreciate it but, what we don’t know is that it can easily be taken away from  us. And when that happens we will be left alone with nothing and we will feel great regret for not appreciating what we had and not trying to make the most of it.

we take a lot of things for granted but the top 3 things we take for granted are Money, family and health and for each one of these things i have a story that taught me not to take any of these things for granted.

1-Money

A year ago my best friend and her family lost most of their money and her home. Just like that after having a beautiful home and a big factory. They were left with no home, no money and a non-working factory. You can imagine how difficult it was for them and having to live in friends home. This teached me how to never take my family’s money and my home for granted and to appreciate that money and know a lot of people are not lucky enough to have it. The money i spend in a month can be pretty enough to solve some of people problems. I am not a spoiled brat i swear but a little amount for me or for you can be huge for someone else. It teached me to stop spending my money on unimportant things and to appreciate how hard my dad works to bring us this money, I haven’t actually went real shopping in 3 month and anyone who know’s me know’s i am a shopaholic. So, appreciate the money you have and spend it wisely in order not to wish one day you did.

2-Family

Recently my other best friend parents are filing for a divorce. I can never imagine what she is going there. Having been in that situation but thank god my parents backed down and made up truley opened my eye’s about that issue and how badly it can affect you. I never ever thought aboout my parents getting a divorce or splitting up. It never crossed my mind so, i never really understood how horrible it is and how again not to take a happy family for granted. If you’re parents love and understand each other be grateful for that and appreciate it because some people wish for it, They pray all the time for it. So, dont take your family for granted and wish they always stay together and happy.

3-Health

Don’t worry this will not be another best friend story. This is my brother’s story. So, ever since my brother was a kid he suffered from a big health problem and for a while the medicine wasn’t even available but, thank god it is now. So, as long as he takes his medicine hopefully everything so going to be fine but sometimes it doesn’t. So, appreciate it your body and how great it works, appreciate it your beating heart and appreciate your life.

So, moral of all these stories is to not take anything for granted and to appreciate what you have. And if you’ve been through any similar situation i wish you the best and i hope you learned for it. Understand that i am not telling you this to gain your compassion or sympathy. I just want you to learn and be grateful. I will see you all next time, Byeeeeee 🙂

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The secret for happiness

We are all searching for happiness. That one thing that makes everything better. Happiness have different forms and shapes and it differs from someone to another, but the feeling remains the same, but i believe everything have a secret and the secret also differs from someone to another.                                                                                                                       So, i asked 10 people what they think is the secret of happiness and some answers weresimilar and some were completely different, but i think they all bring happiness, Here is the answers

The secret is trying not to worry much about the future and being happy with what you have but still being a little ambitious.

It’s not allowing others to hurt\abuse you.

It’s having supporting friends and family that love you no matter what and doing the things you love

It’s ignoring the people that hurt you.

It’s seeing the good side of everything and being realistic.

It’s inner peace.

It’s finding a significant other and being in love.

It’s listening to the voice of your heart and following it.

It’s helping others.

It’s believing in God.

It’s positive thinking.

And finally after a long journey i discovered my secret. Its chasing dreams and achieving them no matter, it’s becoming successful and helping others trying to make them happy

Now you tell me what’s your secret, I would love to know. So, feel free to tell me in the comment section down below, BYEEEEEEE and i will see you all next time.

Lost boy

I saw him there on the roof , trembling upon the edge of truth

with it all coming back to him just like the wind blew his heart

He was thinking about this world wether its worth it or not

Life kept swallowing him hard … hard to believe he is never gonna get

Tears was coming through his eyes filled with memories of his life

He thought he was the mistake for what he never knew

He was wondering alone in this world trying to keep some laughter trying …  to make some sense

But he don’t … he never did .. he never understood how some shallow people and some twisted lies could make a life

And how two people could make a family maybe it is but not in his world

His world is filled with beauty ,honesty and HUMANS .. I guess after all there is a huge difference between people and humans

Humanity is being lost by people … humans are being lost by people

He looks at everyone he knows wondering why they met … asking himself about the truth

The truth he was always to blind to see

He feels so lonely in a house full of people and a world full of crowds whom he can’t seem to notice what they are screaming about

He wish he could just escape

A new place and a new name that’s all it takes

He is struggling …. that’s all i can say .